So, I’m attempting this blog thing again – maybe I’ll get better at it now that I have more friends farther away :)
We’ve been in Portland for over four weeks now and slowly getting settled. Brian seems to really enjoy his new job – and they enjoy him; the perfect combo. The kids and I are getting into a routine of sorts. We’ve found Taylor a part-time daycare, but she doesn’t begin for another three weeks so we’ve had some extra time together – been good for all of us. I’m really going to miss her when she starts “school” again.
She’s been pushing us to potty train her. I’m going to have to get a couple of supplies, but I don’t think we’ll be able to hold her off much longer – without it becoming detrimental to the process, so hopefully by the end of the week we’ll be ready to go (if not sooner). If all goes well, hopefully she’ll be in good shape before she begins daycare.
This past weekend I drove the kids up to Dallas so I could have my post-baby check-up with my beloved doctor. I’m going to miss her so much, and if anyone ever needs an OB-GYN in Dallas, let me know – love recommending her. I even shed a few tears over our last appointment and have considered driving up once a year just to see her – as unrealistic as that would be; I should have one here “just in case” I know. The trip, to say the least was an adventure.
Taylor, Josh, and I left Thursday morning – swinging by Brian’s work so he could say goodbye; we were on the road by 10:15 and made it to south San Antonio for lunch – Chick-fil-A is such a great place to be with kids when you’re on your own. They always bring my food to me and most the time offer to get the high chair. They also tend to check-up on me to make sure I don’t need more drinks or anything. This time, they even helped me get the kids back to the car – maybe I looked completely overwhelmed. The stop took longer than I hoped – over an hour and a half due to long lunch lines, Josh wanting to eat, and Taylor wanting to play J but we did get back into the car and on our way…almost making it to Austin before J-man informed me he did not want to wait any longer to eat – McDonalds it was (also meant we hit more rush-hour traffic than I hoped). Taylor learned that Chocolate milk shakes are yummy…We stopped in Waco for dinner – yay for Chuy”s and finally got to the hotel shortly before ten; needless to say I was exhausted and without my wedding band (still haven’t found it and feel it’s lost forever and am glad that at least I have my engagement ring, but I do really miss that band).
Friday brought my first challenge (in Dallas) and Brian’s favorite story – he’s really upset he missed it, but if he’d been there, then it wouldn’t have happened... I was getting ready for lunch with a dear friend and her daughter. I was completely on time and decided to get the diaper bag together before I fed Josh (trying to maximize time between feedings so I could make lunch as long as possible). We had a connecting room in the hotel – living room on one side of the connecting door and the bedroom on the other – both had entry points from the hallway. All three of us were in the bedroom area. Luckily after my shower I decided to put on shorts along with my bra (I limited the clothes I was putting on just in case Josh spit-up while he ate; I didn’t want to have to change again). I went into the living room to get the room key and my wallet and as I got to the couch I heard a bang. My heart sank. I knew the connecting door had been closed from the other side by my adorable little daughter and that she would be unable to open it form the other side. I quickly explored my options…call the front desk for help or go into the hallway and see if I could get in from there (hoping my memory was wrong and I had removed the “deadbolt” and that I wouldn’t come across anyone in the hallway). I knew the hallway was the fastest option and the one I had to explore first, so I opened the door and saw a nine-year old boy standing with his back to me playing a game. I thought/hoped I could test the door fast enough – before he turned around or anyone else came out. Of course it took me longer to test the door than I wanted and the deadbolt was still in tact. As I turned around to get back into the living room, I saw the boy along with his brother, mom, and dad walking my. I apologized to the dad and quickly explained I was locked out by Taylor – I’d like to believe he gave me a “knowing, we’ve all been there, sympathetic” look…either that or he just thought I was an idiot J
My next move was to call the front desk and explain the situation. My favorite moment was when I needed to explain that I wasn’t fully dressed. They asked me if I could “hide” while they were there. I just figured I needed to suck it up and deal. I talked to Taylor through the connecting door while I waited for the “engineer” and she sounded a little upset. While I waited I realized that there were hand towels in the half-bath on my side of the room. I fashioned a very cute top by hooking two towels under my arms – I think the look will be on all the fashion runways J The engineer came and informed me he couldn’t open the connecting door and was going to have to go through the hallway. He opened the bedroom door as much as the deadbolt would allow, told me to talk to Taylor and ran down the hall. At this point, Taylor was sounding a bit more panicked. I got down on my hands and knees to talk to her at her level. It took her a minute or so but she managed to get so she could see me. I then saw her struggle a little bit with her arms, twisting her torso around. A moment later I saw her arm come through – with the bag of donuts in them…I guess she was more concerned about her breakfast than being stuck in the room without me. I’m glad she wasn’t traumatized J We made it to our lunch just a little late and had a great time catching up with a good friend and her daughter.
The rest of the day was uneventful…doctor’s appointment, a little shopping, no nap, quick dinner out and picking Brian up at the airport – I was so happy to know I wasn’t on my own anymore…as was Taylor J
The rest of the weekend was fairly relaxing. Had lunch with some good friends and came back to the hotel for naps. We then had a late dinner with our old neighbors – miss them so much. Sunday was church to see some friends and worship the way we miss followed by lunch with our old small group (and good friends). Three couples with four kids makes it difficult for conversation, but it’s so good to see everyone (adults and kids) interacting. Moments like that I’m missing down here so far, but am confident God will provide them in due time. After lunch, we fed Josh and hit the road. The trip back was a little faster/easier than the trip down minus the speeding ticket I received (I promise the speed limit sign read 65 and not 60…and the 3 signs we passed within a quarter of a mile would agree with me – the cop said that “all along there had a speed limit of 60”, yet just around the bend from where we were stopped read “65”…so incredibly frustrating! No, I’m not over my first speeding ticket yet).
So I wrote most of this in one day and then the last couple of paragraphs later…this last paragraph much later (we’ve now been here for almost 7 weeks). Hopefully I’ll be better about updating the blog, but I make no promises ;)